I'm walking home!

Near Lake Steven's, a guy stopped and asked if I needed anything. He said he always stopped for those he saw on the highway toting a full backpack as he was a hiker. He told me he had hiked the Appalachian Trail in '99. This perked up my ears as I too had been attempting a thru-hike of the "AT" in '99. He invited me to McDonald's for some breakfast. I asked him what his trail name (nicknames given on the trail) had been and he said he only went by his real name, Mike. As we sat there I kept thinking he looked familiar to me, and so we kept the investigation going as to whether we had crossed paths or not. Well, it turns out that we actually spent two nights together in the same cabin at Goose Creek Cabins near Blairsville, Georgia near the "AT". That sixth degrees of separation is alive and well in my life! Now, when sharing my "AT" album and friends ask who the guy with the bushy white hair and beard is standing next to me, instead of saying, "Beats the hell outa' me!" I can say, "Why that's Mike, I'll never forget him!"

On a back road on my way over to route 11 for my walk into Bellingham, I had to walk by fields full of ripe strawberries. The smell was overpowering and had my mouth watering! A car pulls up beside me with two smiling young ladies in it. "Hi" they said as they handed me a full quart of fresh picked strawberries. "We work for Sakuma Brothers Market Stand and we all wanted you to have these." No sooner had they pulled away and another vehicle pulled up with two young  and pretty smiling girls. They handed me a small bag and one said, "Here, they forgot to bring you the shortcakes!" While they were still there, a pickup with two young men pulled up and greeted the three of us. One young lady said, "They work with us too." I said, "Did you guy's bring the whipped cream?" I'm not so sure they needed whipped cream, those were some of the best strawberries I had ever eaten and the homemade shortcakes were indeed the best I had ever eaten in my life!

In Bow, Washington on route 11, Chuckanut Drive, I went into the Rhododendron Cafe to get out of the rain and get something to eat. Once inside, I realized it was a more up scale restaurant than I would have chosen... had I had a choice, it was the only act in town. So I ordered but soup and coffee. It was a huge portion and was delicious! A lady came to my table curious about my "LOVE LIFE" sign near the door and asked what I was doing. She introduced herself as Carol Shank. owner of the cafe and told me she had my meal covered there would be no charge!

I was lost in Bellingham, Washington and had asked several people directions and to no avail. I spotted a welcome sight, a kiosk with a sign over it which said, "Bellingham Info" Well, the map at the kiosk left me even more confused than I had been before. As I was standing there frustrated I looked up over the map and there was a sign which stated, "IF YOU ARE LOST IN BELLINGHAM BLAME THE FOUR CITIES THAT BECAME BELLINGHAM" I'm not real big on blaming things so I looked around for someone else to ask. I approached a lady walking toward me and asked if she could direct me to Broadway. She looked at me as though I was a leper, but she acknowledged that she did know how to get to Broadway and started giving me directions. I was about 15 feet from her and I took a step closer to her so as to hear over the downtown traffic. She frantically stuck her hands out in front of her and said, "Don't come any closer to me or you will have to get your directions elsewhere!" I said, "Ma'am?" She said, "I'm serious, do not come any closer!" I said, "Ma'am, are you infectious or something, do you have a contagious disease?" "That's it!" she said throwing her hands up in the air, "You'll get no directions from me!" Don't blame me lady... blame those four cities!

Just outside Bellingham as I was walking past a very nice home, a very pretty young lady stepped out onto her driveway and asked if I needed anything. I told her I could use some fresh water. I told her my story and she went in and got her husband so he could hear my story as well. They were Peter and Michelle Parsons and they invited me in their home for the night! Peter was an engineer on a factory fishing boat out of Dutch Harbor, Alaska that fished the Bering Sea. He was waiting for the new season to begin. Michelle said she hoped he wouldn't be out for five month's like he was the last time. We had fantastic conversation over a dinner of fresh fish, a perk from Peter's occupation. Michele did my laundry and fixed me up with energy bars and fresh and dried fruit for my next days journey. I left there with full stomach, clean clothes and refreshed from a hot shower! They were such great people and... I have two new friends!
Next day, I was but a few miles from the home of Michelle and Peter, I stopped and stripped off my pack and ducked into the bushes to relieve myself. When I stepped back out, I saw two cold bottles of water next to my pack. Guess I had not been as incognito as I thought. As I was standing there enjoying one of the bottles of water, I heard, "You want something to eat?" I looked up to see a man about my age holding a plate full of fried chicken and vegetables in front of him. "I see you found your water, I live in the house just in back of us, you can't see it for all the large bushes." He told me that he was a Christian and that Bellingham has a lot of homeless and that he feeds all that he can. I thanked him and we talked awhile as he had become very interested in what I was doing.

It's "from rags to riches" out here on the road, one day I'm in a fine home spending the night and the next I have to spend an hour hacking out a tent space from the briar's with my pocket knife. I ended up with a nice flat tent site and very well hidden from the passing auto's.
In the Big Rock Cafe & Grocery at Mount Vernon, Washington, as I was paying for my purchases, Randy Audette the owner said, "Where you headed Mr. Love Life?" I told him I was going up to Blaine and the walking to Key West. He gave me permission to tent ON his property! Great, no hacking with my knife and I have a place to get fresh coffee the next morning! He also let me sit at one of the cafes tables and work at my laptop. The very cute bartender/waitress was bending down trying to help me find an electrical outlet and the zipper on her very tight jeans broke! "Damn!" she said, "Hey, anybody got some safety pins?" A couple female patrons looked in their purses to no avail. A few minutes later as she passed me on her way to a customers table I saw that she had solved her problem. She had taken four of those large black and chrome, very strong paper clips and clipped them up the front of her jeans doing the job of the zipper. I complimented her on her ingenuity. She just laughed, what a wonderful personality, she had not a care as to how it looked! She just had a job to do. I love women like that.

As I walked along the road facing the traffic as usual and carrying my beautiful "LOVE LIFE" sign over my head and minding my own business... a really beat up older car drove past me and the driver stuck his head out the window and yelled, "Idiot!" Just as I turned to see the source of the insult,I heard tires screeching. About four cars in front of the name caller a car had made an abrupt left turn. Because the other drivers in front of him were looking at the road and minding their own business, they did not have to slam on their brakes and swerve to miss the car in front of them... by inches! This maneuver caused him to be at a complete stop as I walked past him with hand over head pointing backwards toward my "LOVE LIFE" sign. Poetic Justice had me smiling broadly, you should have seen his face as he tried with all his might not to look over my way!

The evening I walked into Blaine, Washington, I met the young attendant at a convenience store. His name was Ryan, he was 28 years old. He told me he had congestive heart failure at 26 years old! The doctors told him that part oof his heart was twice the size of normal. There was no one there but he and I and he kept stepping out to smoke cigarettes. He told me that he drank as well! I asked, had not the doctors advised him to stay away from tobacco and alcohol? He said that indeed they had but the heart disorder he suffered from was hereditary and he said he figured it wouldn't matter one way or the other. I chewed him out with a whole lot of love attached. He was such a sweet and sensitive young man. I told him the same things that I say to those who tell me they are considering ending their lives. I explained to him that he doesn't have the right to be that careless with his life, that it doesn't belong just to him and that he owes it to the people who love him to take care of himself and to try and live as long as he can! We talked a very long time and I do pray that my words had an effect on him. He did say he would try to start looking at his situation differently.
I found a spot behind the store where Ryan worked to pitch my tent and went there the next morning for coffee. I started up a conversation with the lady working the morning shift. As soon as I told her why I carried "LOVE LIFE" over my head, she shared with me that both her parents had committed suicide at the same time less than three years before! We talked a lot about how we have to forgive those who commit such a self centered act because they are in so much emotional pain they do not realize they are being self centered. They become convinced they are doing the right and the only thing left to do. I told her I felt that the forgiveness is for the benefit of the one forgiving, it is a form of closure. I told her I felt that it helps heal the hearts of those of us left behind. She said she was working on that. I had never ran into anyone before who had lost their parents to a double suicide.

In Blaine, I walked up to the Canadian border and stood at the Peace Arch and took several pictures. I touched both the water and the border to signify going to the northwest corner of the U.S. I am most definitely.... now heading home! Also in Blaine, a guy drove past an shouted, "What the f--- is there to love about it!" I shouted back instantly, "Breathing!" And of course, he didn't stop so I could explain to him how simple life truly is... and how we start to really love it by just loving and appreciating the act of breathing! Life is a gift, a gift to be appreciated and enjoyed. We need to work very hard at never ever complaining... about anything! It is such a useless waste of energy. Energy we could be using to look at our own faults and then correct them. I have found that in looking at my own faults... I don't see so much fault in others to complain about.
Just outside of Blaine a guy by the name of JJ stopped and offered me something to eat and a spot to rest for awhile. I said sure and he told me it was at the end of the street we were facing and that he lived in a bright purple house. I walked on down there and that house was absolutely... BRIGHT PURPLE! I loved it! I sat out on their front porch with JJ and his fiance Karen (They're getting married today, 7/12/09.... congratulations guys!) and their friends Scott and Lisa. Lisa gave me a tiny glass turtle with the head broken, she said it was broken but it had been her grandmothers and her grandmother had been an extremely stubborn person. She said she felt it took stubbornness to do what I do. I agreed with her and thanked her for giving me such a treasured gift! Karen heads up an organization called The Red Egg Project which is dedicated to the homeless and the less fortunate. I ate tamales, charged my laptop and phone, said my goodbyes to those wonderfully sweet people and was gone on to my next adventure!

Walking down a beautiful part of rout 9 near Acme, WA., and passing by a beautiful large home with a gorgeous view of Mt. Baker, I was confronted by a very tall and slender young man stepping out of the entrance to the home. He looked like he had been sleeping on the streets for a week, he did not look like he belonged to that house. He excitedly introduced himself as Colin and asked me to follow him into the beautiful home. "You'll have to excuse the confusion" he said, "we're all busy preparing for a wedding this coming Saturday but it just isn't every day someone walks by with a LOVE LIFE sign over their head." He led me into a kitchen full of busy people and introduced me and told everyone of my sign. His father immediately took my water jug and began filling it, his mother put a plate full of homemade cookies under my nose. A beautiful young woman came down the stairs and I asked if she were the bride to be. She said yes. I thanked them for their hospitality but explained that I didn't want to add more chaos to what they were already experiencing. They all laughed and said goodbye. I was looking for Colin to thank him and he was out front on his cell phone explaining directions to friends flying into Seattle for the wedding while he was on his knees picking and eating wild strawberries. "Are you related to the groom or the bride?" I asked Colin. "I am the groom." replied Colin. we talked a little while but he was way too busy taking care of last minute things for his wedding. He did have time to tell me he was getting married to the most wonderful and the most beautiful woman in the world! What a cool family!!

A young mother stopped with her son and daughter and asked to take my picture and gave me a pint of fresh raspberries...yum!

In Sedro-Wooley, Washington I was approached by a man and woman who were both covered with beautiful tattoo's and asked if they could take my picture. I said, "Yes, as long as I get to take yours!" They were Tim and Lise Sconce of Tiny Tim's Tattoo's in Sedro Wooley. They asked if anyone ever treated me harshly and I said, "Not really, other than someone giving me the finger occasionally... actually that hasn't happened this trip yet... I'm kind of disappointed." We talked a little while and I told him I was friends with Dayna Beach tattooist, Bob The Hammer and Tim had heard of him. We said our goodbyes and as they were pulling out I heard, "Steve!" I looked up and Tiny Tim was holding up that large tattooed arm and flipped me off! Now was that thoughtful or what!! It's the little things that get me... I think I'm going to cry.

On route 20 walking through the Northern Cascade National Park, a delightful gentleman named Tom took me to his campsite and cooked me a wonderful meal of sausage, peppers, onions, and zucchini. He had a French press to make the awesome coffee with! The meal was wonderful as was the conversation. He was a very interesting man and had spent several years living in Russia. We also talked of his 21-year-old daughter who had not spoken to him in five years! I could not begin to imagine the pain if my two babies were still alive and I was unable to talk to them!

While still in the Northern Cascades National Park I met Blake and Sue from Bakersfield, California who also invited me to their campsite. Sue's cousin Rob, who works in the park, came by and we cut sticks to cook our steaks on and drank some wine. It rained the whole time! We laughed and told stories and had a blast! Rob and I discussed whether we really do reap what we sow in life.... that one, I have no doubts about! Rob also told us a great story: A friend of Rob's who is a ranger in the park and as Mark put it, "One of the most layed back guys you could ever meet." Rob said that his ranger friend had to approach a camper in the park over some violation he had committed. The camper just happened to be one of those Christian guys who walks the country toting a cross over his shoulder (the sissies put wheels on 'em.) The cross carrier started arguing with Rob's layed back ranger friend and refusing to comply! Well, it ended up in a fist fight! We laughed and laughed over that one. Blake and Sue decided to go to their cousins home for the night and so they let me use their already pitched large and very dry tent for the night! I keep meeting all these wonderful new friends!

Also in the Nothern Cascades National Park, Russell and Anneliese Prononcha from Spokane, Washington stopped in their motor home and invited me in for great conversation and a bowl of chili! We talked for a couple hours and they sent me off with a box of Granola bars, a package of hot dogs, and that wonderful heart warming feeling you get after meetng great people and acquiring new friends!!

At Mazama, while sitting at a table outside having my wonderful first cup of coffee, a lady named Boo Turner stopped and asked me how the walk was going as her and her teen-aged son had seen me the day before walking over Washington Pass. We talked awhile and she invited me to breakfast at her home with her and her son. She works for a company which makes hiking socks and a company which makes hiking boots! She is going to try to get me some socks and a pair of boots! And the breakfast was good too! Boo called the local newspaper and when I made it to Twisp, WA., I went to the office of the newspaper and a wonderful lady named Joyce interviewed me and then took me to a delightful little cafe and bakery across the street and treated me to lunch! I had the best eclair I ever ate!

Leaving the delightful little town of Twisp I was walking past the Blue Spruce Motel and saw a strikingly beautiful young woman tending to the flowers in the motel yard. Her baby daughter was in a stroller watching mommy. Mommy looked up at me and said, "Hey, you need a place to stay tonight? I have one room that hasn't been remodeled yet and it has an ugly shower, I can let you have it for the night." I said, "Thank you, yes! There is no such thing as an ugly shower!" The shower was beautiful! Nicole's heart was beautiful! She brought me several frozen dinners that she said had been left by previous guests. She also brought me Pepsi's and fresh peaches. She gave me the room for two nights
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  • 7/13/2009 3:34 PM Rachelle wrote:
    Steve - i wanted to say something to you - a word of encouragement, maybe convey how much I admire you or maybe something wise but all that keeps coming to mind is, I love you.
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    1. 7/17/2009 10:35 AM Steve Fugate wrote:
      What could possibly be wiser than the choice of love... and what could possibly be more encourageing than knowing you are loved! Thank you!  Steve  "LOVE LIFE"  Fugate
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  • 7/15/2009 10:45 PM Kamron Coleman wrote:
    Dear Neighbor,

    I had the pleasure of passing you between the little towns of Methow and Pateros, and the joy of being uplifted and touched by your humble and profound message. I was on my way to work in Chelan where I was engaged to a 40-ton waterfall. You were smiling broadly at the moment and responding kindly to the wave from pair of motorcyclists going the opposite direction you and I were. The Methow Valley has been rasped by the suicides of numerous people in recent years, and a suicide in my family has damaged three generations. There was a time in my life that I considered suicide a viable option to save my soul from my irreverent individuality that I was promised would damn me.

    When I saw your sign and your smile, and the jug of water happily dangling at your side I was profoundly grateful for a day's worth of contemplation. I love life. It is the most sacred thing I have ever been in contact with. If all of religion and humanity could be summarized in the simplest of all terms, you have done it better than Jesus: to live well is a gift far greater than to intentionally die.

    Your stature under the backpack indicated that you needed nothing except to be present and sociable in this beautiful world. The image of you walking alongside the road will remain with me, your words in red on white, and the article about you in The Methow Valley News will hang discreetly on my office wall. I hope that joy accompanies you in all of your travels.

    Very best to you,
    Kamron Coleman
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    1. 7/17/2009 10:29 AM Steve Fugate wrote:
      Kamron,

      How wonderful for the rest of us in the universe that you made the choice to step above the adversities encountered in life and used them as tools to enrich you and teach you to "LOVE LIFE" instead of ending your precious life! I am so sorry that suicide occurred in your family, I am glad you obviously use it as a 'what not to do'!

      I have studied the beautiful teachings of Jesus quite thoroughly, and my personal interpretations bare no resemblance to Christianities interpretation. I'm with Bertrand Russell when he said, "On Christianity, I'll take the Christ, you can have the 'anity." I believe, he simply died for what he believed in, he knew he wasn't going to back down and so he then knew they would kill him for it. Ghandi and many others have died for what they believed in. I appreciate the comparison to Jesus but I'm not so sure I'm prepared to make that sacrifice.

      I am honored that you have found a place on your office wall for my story, I am more honored by the fact, you get it! You see the message, you understand the message and you have summed it up most beautifully, "We need nothing except to be present and sociable in this beautiful world!" Thank you for that Kamron, if I ever have an office again, that will be on my wall!

      Your new friend, Steve  "LOVE LIFE"  Fugate




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      1. 7/19/2009 4:48 PM Kamron wrote:
        Hello Steve,

        It is lovely to hear from you. My comment about Christ certainly risked oversimplification and offense, and so I am happy to know that we share in common an interest in this tender and mighty figure. Certainly too great a mystery to tackle here, but my favorite artistic representation of Christ's sacrifice is by Nikos Kazantzakis where Nikos imagined that Jesus of Nazareth loved his own truly human life intensely and thoroughly, which is what made his sacrifice so profound. My previous comment came from a darker place where the Crucifixion and Resurrection was predetermined and the glory so certain that it was no sacrifice at all, where "we live to die and we die to live", an aspect of Christianity that I find terribly destructive. Thank you for the joy of humane and compassionate duologue about such a difficult public topic.

        I watched your short film with my family the other evening. We were very touched. I am moved by your message and so very pleased to know you just a little better now.

        Travel and live well, with warmest regards,

        Kamron
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        1. 7/20/2009 9:39 PM Steve Fugate wrote:
          Kamron,

          Thank you so very much for watching the trailer of the ongoing documentary about my cause. Thank you for your kind and encourageing words. Thank you for sharing it with your family! If you click on the link, "My Story" in the first paragraph of my home page, it will take you to the NPR program featuring the story of my walks. I would appreciate your take on it... very much.  

          You would possibly enjoy, "The Crucifixion (Written On A Good Friday)" by Kahlil Gibran. He separates the beauty of the sacrifice from the image created by Christianity, that image which keeps so many from finding the real beauty in the teachings of Jesus. I agree with you that Christianities interpretation creates the image of a magnificent glory which blinds them to the true sacrifice. Yes, it is destructive. Christianity does some fine things in this world, such as feeding the poor, rescuing orphans, tending to the diseased, and more. However, in my opinion, Christianity is the very last source to find out anything about their namesake!! They are the cause of it having become such a "difficult public topic".

          And happily, I now know you a little better, thank you for further explanation of your statements. Thank you for wonderful conversation. Be well and may Life bless you!
          Steve  "LOVE LIFE"  Fugate 
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          1. 7/20/2009 10:28 PM Kamron wrote:
            Warm greetings Steve,

            My son and I recently became fans of the "Hearing Voices" program on NPR when we were traveling home together from camping. I have one son whose birth was followed by my daughter. Your story intimates my deepest loves and fragile purpose. I was happy to track your audio article down yesterday. My take on the presentation is that your passion was lovely to hear in the bare nakedness of voice. The range of emotions was striking: from the humor and the beer story to the wrenching sorrow. You almost have me ready to track you down to share a beer with you. My regret is that such a thing might have happened the other day, but I would not have thought of it on the way to work.

            I will certainly enjoy exploring Kahil Gibran's book. I have heard the name but I have not read anything he offered. Your description reminds me of the story of a man that has impressed me very deeply, that of Mansur Al-Hallaj, (aka the cotton-carder from Persia)a Muslim Sufi who suffered a terrible execution at the hands of his peers for his interpretation of love, humanity, and God. I have felt since studying him that if his story were told as passionately from the evangelical pulpit that the world would change, but as it is, he is a competitor to Christianity, and this shows the absurdity of any group pretending to own any of history's heroic souls.

            Very best to you,
            Kamron
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            1. 7/30/2009 11:52 AM Steve Fugate wrote:

              Thank you for listening to the "Hearing Voices" program, but my deepest thanks is that you used the perspective and applied it to your love for your children and your..."fragile purpose". It sounds as though you have chosen to let your strongest sources of love guide you and your children's fragile journey together through this life. I applaud you for taking such a path. I am in Idaho and a little too far away for a beer together but I will certainly have you in mind while downing my next brew! Thank you.

              Christianity has created much competition where there instead could be much learning. Kahlil Gibran is considered by most Christians to be of Eastern religions and so then is ignored. Truth is, he was from a small ancient Christian sect in Lebanon. He, like Jesus, was a heretic and seeks truth, not doctrine. Christianity is what it is, I accept that and the fact they will never accept the beautiful teachings of Gibran, Mansur Al-Halla nor anyone else not meeting the criteria their strict doctrines have created. In following the law of the Golden Rule and not judging the precious human beings who make up Christianity, (I can change no one in this life but myself.) I simply continue on my merry way and learn from the "heroic souls"! Christianity nor any other religious beliefs have any effect on my individual choices. May Life bless all my fellow human beings in Christianity and all other man made religions which I will never adhere to. I am an equal opportunity disbeliever in ALL man made religious beliefs. The energy I save in not in not being concerned about how others do it, I can apply to changing myself by learning.... MY way. Thank you Kamron for such wonderful food for thought!! Thank you for being a wonderful parent! Thank you for being my friend.
              And the very best to you! ~ Steve  "LOVE LIFE"  Fugate  


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              1. 8/1/2009 9:33 PM Kamron wrote:
                Cheers, Steve. Enjoy a nice unfiltered amber with my thanks for a lovely exchange. I will check in to your website periodically with interest in your exploits, but know that I share a lifetime commitment in our mutual purpose that you have so symbolically and eloquently proven. All the very best. KC
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  • 7/24/2009 6:18 AM Linda Gray wrote:
    Steve, I am the mother of the mail lady Deanna, that you met in Nashport Ohio Apr. 4 2007. Thank you for your words to her that day .I believe your words made a difference in her life. she did a 20 mile walk in New York for prevent suicide.She had a hip replaced and needs another but did the whole walk.She Loves LIfe. Thank You.
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  • 8/14/2009 9:06 PM anneliese wrote:
    Hello Steve! Where you at now? I enjoyed our visit so much (if you remember Russell and I in the North Cascades) Your stories, though I couldn't say at the time were ME. Remember the wife who lost custody. I've told my kids and friends about you,you are great!! Keep cool or warm and know you are in our thoughts and prayers. I would love to visit with you again, and so would Russ. Take care
    love anneliese
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    1. 8/17/2009 8:26 PM Steve Fugate wrote:
      Hello Annelese! I'm in the middle of Montana between White Sulfur Springs and Harlowton, Montana. You were right, those hotdogs were great eaten raw! I had a wonderful time with you and Russ, thank you so very much for inviting me into your motor home and for feeding me with food and pleasant and inspiring conversation! I'm glad my story touched you, I pray you are now having positive outcomes with your own personal story! I would love to visit with you and Russ again as well. See ya in Key West! I hope to be there in December. Your new friend, Steve  "LOVE LIFE"  Fugate
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  • 9/1/2009 5:45 AM carol tabbert wrote:
    Wow! Glad that your angels were with you that day! Can't wait to see your trading chip! Save one to show. Have a good journey! Carol
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  • 7/11/2010 10:57 PM kesha's dad wrote:
    Steve,
    I can't stop reading your story. It's seriously one that has me both on the edge of my seat and sitting back to ponder. Thanks for sharing.
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